I’m reading a book these days (thanks to Glenn Goode the
regional director of our association) called ‘The Peace Making Pastor: A Biblical Guide to Resolving Church
Conflict’ by Alfred Poirier. As I’ve walked by glancing at the cover
numerous times over the last several weeks prior to diving into it, I have not
been highly motivated to pick it up and get started. The Lord has spared our
church a lot of conflict. Don’t get me wrong, it is not that we are without
conflict entirely but we have enjoyed great unity over the years by in large;
something I continually thank the Lord for.
However, now that I’ve read a couple of chapters, I’m
hooked. When we think of church conflict, we often think of it on a larger
scale, but that isn’t the main focus of Poirier’s work. On page 34 he writes, “… the more typical kinds of conflict that
consume a pastor’s time (and which this book particularly addresses) are the
run-of-the-mill personal affairs, which Jesus is addressing when he tells us to
first get the plank out of our own eye… These are conflicts caused by personal
sin that surface in family and marriage disputes, strained friendships, or
business/employment conflicts involving church members.”
This makes the book intensely practical so that it’s hard
to imagine anything more pertinent. And what’s more, the author grounds his
teaching and practice of peacemaking in the solid rock of the gospel. Let me
share a few choice excerpts with you:
“The gospel is the
engine that drives the train of reconciliation. Unresolved conflicts between
Christians have less to do with people being skillful than with them being
sinful… peacemaking can be embraced because Christ is the incarnate Peacemaker…
He is the first and only true Peacemaker… failure to train our people and our
leaders as peacemakers is a failure in Christology, for peacemaking is
Christology… Peacemaking is all about Jesus Christ… The gospel of Jesus is the
message of peacemaking… God’s cosmic work of reconciling all things in heaven
and on earth to Himself is through the person and work of Christ. In Christ,
God reconciles all things to Himself…”
Not only is he shedding some new light on my calling as a
pastor but he is also helping me to see this whole subject of conflict
resolution (peacemaking) in a whole new light as well. Exciting!
It sounds just what we need right now. I have been wondering how I can help a friend who needs to find a peaceful middle road. Save those messages until I finish in Children's church please. My last day is Sept. 30. Marion
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